It has been a very emotionally draining experience - a student was extremely offended by my words, jokes and style of teaching. I made the effort to explain my intentions and what I actually meant but I believe that when words hurt, reason makes no sense and is only seen as an excuse. I acknowledged my wrong and publicly apologized. It was the right thing to do but I am saddened and emotionally drained. I pray no more such episodes will take place. What did I learn from this?
- What's funny for one, is offensive to the other. Be careful when joking and jesting in class and try never to laugh at or make a joke of a student or else disaster awaits.
- In a multi racial class, the potential to step on sensitive 'toes' abound - learn to walk far away from such feet and be highly sensitive to certain students' reactions
- Realize your words carry shades of meanings and its the receiver's/listener's interpretation that counts - not what you said but what she believed you said.
- Hurting people hurt people - students come from various backgrounds and situations. Some are hurting and what you say and do can increase pain that already exist.
- Trust God, do what is right, be humble and seek the best for all in these situations.
May God be gracious, just and true on all of us. Amen.
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